Experience Eclipse 2017 in Charleston, SC

Planning to live in the “Dark Side of the Moon” for a couple of minutes? Interested in the “Moonshadow” live?

If you’re planning on taking a trip to a U.S. city, to take part in the once-in-a-lifetime total solar eclipse experience, consider communities surrounding larger cities. Charleston is awesome. But, several communities surrounding Charleston, SC may be an easier bet to reach, to hunker in, and to explore. Among the sweetest is the Town of Summerville.

It’s estimated that, conservatively, the greater Charleston area will host between 60,000-80,000 visitors. Yet there have been several reports estimating over a million. According to College of Charleston Physics Professor, Dr. Chris Fragile, “This will be the most viewed eclipse in human history.” The South Carolina coast is the final place to view the 2017 Total Solar Eclipse before it heads out to cast the moon’s shadow onto the Atlantic Ocean.

The last coast-to-coast total eclipse to traverse North America was 99 years ago, in 1918. The next time the phenomonen of a total eclipse crossing our continent will occur is 35 years from now, in 2052. Why so seldom? The moon orbits at a five degree tilt. The earth and sun each spin on a separate axis. And, let’s face it; 70% of the earth is ocean, so our waters are much more likely to experience a total eclipse than we are.


Get Special Eye Protection

One cannot look directly into the sun on any occasion, and partial blockage of the sun does not affect its intensity, nor affect the ability to prevent eye damage. Sunglasses with UV protection will simply not cut it this time. Unless you have a welder’s shield collecting dust in your garage, you’ll need to invest a buck or two in a pair of eclipse glasses. When you wear a pair of eclipse glasses in a lit room, they will block out all light. Put them on to watch the sun and moon converge. Wear them, looking directly at the sun safely, to view the eclipse until totality. Only then, will you be able to remove the glasses briefly, to see the outer glow. Once the sun begins to once again emerge, you’ll need to don the glasses until you’re ready to, again, view the rest of the world around you.

You may also be fortunate enough to see “shadow bands,” explains Dr. Fragile. “They’re similar to the funny, squiggly shadows that appear at the bottom of the swimming pool,” he says. He suggests laying a white bedsheet on the ground to best view shadow bands.

Defer to your iPhone Camera

The amount of heat entering the lens and body of your 35mm SLR camera may be damaging. But iPhone cameras are designed to adjust to the amount of ambient light, making it safe to use. It may be time to purchase an iPhone tripod, or determine how to securely attach your selfie stick to your tripod.

Even through a telescope, a dense mylar filer is a necessity.

Plan for Chilly Weather

Yes, on August 21st, you are heading directly into the scorching summer heat of South Carolina. But you will need to pack a few items to keep you warm. During a total eclipse, the temperature will drop and the winds may pick up. Charleston Southern University Professor of math and physics, Dr. Fred Worthy, says that he experienced a partial eclipse during which the temperature plummeted by 30 degrees.

Escape the Crowded Interstate by Checking Out a Surrounding Community

I’m biased, because I lived in Summerville, S.C. for 12 years, and it remains my “home,” whether or not I live there. Totality  in Summerville will be experienced for between one minute and 40 seconds to two minutes. For additional eclipse stats, check out this link.  Summerville Dream has a great microsite highlighting the Eclipse happenings around Summerville. And, Colonial Dorchester State Historic Site will host events throught the weekend preceding the Eclipse. Check out the lineup at…

Summerville, S.C., The Birthplace of Sweet Tea, may be easier to access, because of its proximity to I-26, the main conduit into Charleston. One you’re settled in Summerville, check out the many things to do in the area both before and after the eclipse. Go to to research and pre-plan your extra time. Visit private merchants in and around the quaint town square reminiscent of small southern towns, indulge in a game of golf, or take a walking tour of the town’s permanent sculpture collection – plus find Sculpture in the South’s more than twenty life-sized bronzes of birds perched on balconies, windowsills, shop signs and rooftops.

Also check out Summerville DREAM, the Summerville Visitor’s Center and Greater Summerville/Dorchester County Chamber of Commerce at 402 N. Main Street for recommendations on events, restaurants, or even that emergency auto mechanic you are not pre-planning to meet.

Buy the T-Shirt! The Greater Summerville/Dorchester Chamber of Commerce is selling a “totality awesome” glow-in-the dark T-Shirt. And a portion of the proceeds benefit the organization’s scholarship fund. You can pre-order your shirt and pick up at the Chamber – or stop in to purchase in person.

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Send Letters to the Universe

Consider something like this….

Dear Mother Nature,
Please do not send cloud cover on August 21, 2017!
With all due respect,


Navigating Your Travel Treasure Hunt

The very first stamp, on my very first passport, was earned in 1994 as I passed through Customs in London’s Heathrow Airport. I had ventured beyond the U.S. alone, on a three week long business trip and felt compelled to find a small, yet meaningful memento to take home. Although I do confess to owning a Milton Glaser I LOVE NY t-shirt, I prefer to find something more lasting. Today, regardless of their monetary value, my travel treasures are among my favorite things.  What do I look for? And where do I search for cool stuff?

International thrift stores contain unusual things. I discovered a fabulous vintage vase at a charity shop in England, wrapped it in layers of clothing, and prayed it would make the trip home. It did. But I learned a valuable lesson about my travel treasure-hunt habits. Today, bubble pack is on my Top Ten Must-Pack List.

Locally produced goods are among my favorite finds. I’ve picked up small blown glass items in factories in Bermuda and in Mexico. These objets d’art transport me to the place and time where glassblowers created their work as we watched on.

A trip to the grocery store is a must. From unusual flavors of Tang, to salsas, sauces, herbs and oils, take the opportunity to come home and allow your vacation to linger in your home until you’ve shared your treats with others. Among my

all-time favorites were several pounds of Costa Rican coffee, and the treasured bottle of Garzón Olive Oil reminiscent of my trip to the Garzón winery/orchard.






Local wines and spirits are yours to discover. The local Costa Ricans introduced Li and I  to Guaro. They laughed. We later learned why. Guaro is, in fact, GRAIN alcohol! For fun, I still brought home a couple of small bottles. The local Ron Barceló rum and Mamajuana I carried home from the Dominican Republic are still favorites for sipping my way into daydreams of coconut-filled wagons, a quiet beach, and the fresh whole fish we ate at sunset, toes embedded in the silky sand.

Never understimate the value of FREE.  Wine corks are integrated into my décor. The Bouza cork in my plant pot is from a memorable dinner with my extended Uruguayan family.

Shells, coral, and sea glass pieces washed ashore have found their way into a display cabinet. Each glass container, filled with shells, and labeled by location, generates lasting tranquility in my home. I can almost HEAR the crashing waves!

Individual Ziplock bags contain a menagerie of tickets, receipts, menus, business cards and phone numbers from each trip. As I blog, it’s easy to track down names and dates, and match photos to exact places and times. These invaluable “pinch me” keepsakes serve as reminders to be grateful for my amazing travel experiences.

Bring home art! I find interesting work in small, local galleries, or at street fairs. I take the time to meet the artist and share my appreciation for their work.  I selected Carol Joy Shannon’s hand-painted guitar during a visit to Myrtle Beach, SC.  The golden-haired child hanging next to it is a find from Key West, FL. And the ballerina was acquired from a  gallery in Costa Rica. While all are paintings, I’ve chosen work of other mediums, like the pastel nude, the encaustic wax bottles of colour, and the watercolor/pen and ink drawing of New York City.  I have a backlog of framing to do – to showcase artwork collected in Uruguay and Argentina. And, each piece carries meaning, a story, and a flood of memories.

Jaco Beach, Costa Rica
Cooperstown, NY
Union Square, New York, NY

Review: Osprey Porter 30

Mum likes traveling with rolling hard side suitcases. Personally, I prefer traveling with backpacks over traditional rolling bags. I like to keep my hands free for anything I might need to do and feel slightly more secure feeling my belongings attached to me. Also, I tend to travel light and have only used all the space in my roller bag when I did my study abroad.

size comparison of Osprey Porter 30 (green) and Coleman Exponent Ravalli

Since 2005 I had relied on my Coleman Exponent Ravalli (discontinued, hereafter referred to as the X). Bought off eBay for $20, it served my immediate needs for cross-country trips, international air travel, and Harry Potter fan conventions.  A strictly no-frills bag, the X had a basic top-load construction with internal frame, a 42 liter capacity, padded straps, a hip belt, and fit in the airplane overhead storage bin. After a decade the flaws were too much to dismiss: top load meant I had to empty and re-pack the back constantly, the stiff frame back was painful after a short amount of time, and the chest clip between the shoulder straps was inconveniently placed and cut into my boobs.

After a year of research (yes, a full year) I decided to replace the X with the Osprey Porter 30 (bought through with an ebates discount). The Porter offers a lot more options including multiple pockets for organization, a built-in laptop sleeve, and most conveniently a main pocket that opens all the way around so that you can access storage without having to completely empty it. A small pocket at the top is easily accessible and ideal for your carry on liquids. The padded  padded straps and belt can be stowed away inside an outer zipper pocket if you need to check the bag or wish to carry it as a duffel (additional carrying strap sold separately). The chest clip is adjustable and can be moved to a boob-friendly position. There are multiple points to attach the with Osprey products or other items with carabiners. The two straps on the front allow you to compress the internal contents (I also use it as a way to carry a jacket). Although they do offer a 46L capacity version with nearly identical features, I opted for the smaller bag as I rarely filled the X.

 The first test for my Porter 30 was my trip to Cambodia. At first I was worried about the bright color marking me as a tourist (something I generally try to avoid) but I quickly realized that as a 5’10” chick I stand out anyways. Plus, I really do like this green and its stylishly Pantone’s color of the year! The Osprey was my only bag and carried a week worth of clothing in packing cubes, items needed for my long haul flight, and all my personal items. It slid neatly under the seat infront of me and was easy to access. During my 10hr layover in Nanning, I carried the pack with little discomfort (honestly, the jet lag could have disguised it). Its sturdy, comfortable, convenient, and I love it.

Thanks to my Porter, I’m officially an Osprey believer.


10 Insider Tips Driving Luggage Choice

When I was embarrassed enough to want to keep my suitcase in the car, rather than bring it into my host’s home, I knew it was time to let go of old baggage – literally. But the plethora of options is so overwhelming, the experience had me procrastinating as badly as when I am forced into the market to buy a car.

With humiliation as my motivator, I engaged on the hunt for the perfect-for-now set of two bags. What makes a bag perfect for now? Just like car shopping, everyone has different preferences that drive their decision. Below are the top ten considerations that drove my selection process.

  1. Time to try a hard shell case. The soft case that served as a cat hammock under my bed is history. The hair is no longer 100% removable, and I’m done expending the energy attempting to get “most of it” off. How efficient is keeping my bag half-packed, if I have to use 50 sheets of a new lint roller refill each time I choose to grab and go?
  2. I’m thrifty, so price is important. I travel enough to justify new bags here and there, so investing a fortune in bags is not on my radar. Li and I constantly ask ourselves, “Would I rather buy this or relax with an umbrella drink on a tropical beach?” The lure of the umbrella drink protects our wallets long enough to savor “experiences” over “stuff.”
  3. Brand matters. When inspecting quality, off brands just don’t measure up to proven standard brands. Luxury brands catch my eye, but I just can’t go there. While leather Gucci bags are enticing, I have just purchased yet another Samsonite duo. While I didn’t set out to be brand loyal, I tend to lean toward Samsonite. For some reason, I have chosen Samsonite for nearly 40 years. (Mental note: Buy Samsonite stock.)
  4. Don’t risk a cheap zipper. Poor zipper quality and construction are instant deal-breakers. I’d be mortified to have my suitcase spill my secrets onto the floor of an airport.
  5. Inspect the gusset fabric. Most bags tend to have a zippered gusset that allows me to bring more home than I left with. Close inspection revels that the weave is not as tight on bargain bags, thus less durable. While I do pack clothing with the intention of leaving it behind for the maids and their families, I still somehow need to unzip and make room for more wine, coffee, and art on my return flight (Pack Rat, Will Travel). Cheap gusset fabric is simply risky.
  6. Test the height of the fully extended telescopic pull. I have long legs, and hunching over to pull my bag through an airport is agony. I learned this the hard way, traveling to Europe with a too short bag and no chiropractor to save me.
  7. The lighter the better. The best thing about ditching my old bags is knowing that I will never have to lift that carry-on into the overhead again in my life. While many times a male hero steps in to help, I have struggled with first hoisting the bag to my seat back (while still in an upright position), then transferring it to the to the top of my head to get it just one more “oomph” into the overhead.
  8. Find wheels that glide like a Hot Wheels car on a twisty track. I drag bags around the store to check wheel bearings. I inspect the way they are attached to the suitcase. Heavy duty rivets – check! My luggage gets dragged over some rocky terrain, and the wheels had better not fail my sense of adventure. 360° rotation is a must. It’s for this reason I chose not to order online; I opted to peruse every Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Ross and Burlington Coat Factory in a 30 mile radius. For the record, Burlington Coat Factory’s discounted prices were typically $10 less per bag on exact same brands and features. (Colors were different in every single store.)
  9. Interior dividers help keep me organized.  I keep my carry-on pre-packed, under my bed, awaiting our next escape. It helps me to have my smaller items like travel make-up and toiletries, a mini-curling iron, and a small first-aid kit ready to go. Check out my Top 10 Must Pack Items to learn more about packing.
  10. Color does count. Gone are the days I just want my suitcase to blend in. I just won’t buy black bags. I now prefer to spot my bags from a mile away, and know that any thief wouldn’t dare drag noticeably colorful bags off the carousel and out the door.  Yet, as I previously blogged about how much I want to outsmart thieves, I do not want to drag UGLY through the airport. And I am reasonably sure I would tire of a print – so a bright solid it is. My previous big bag for check-in, under the cat hair, was red. My carry-on was kinda purple. This time I struggled over blue and silver, before settling on the blue. It was not until I rolled my bags toward the cash register that I realized they are not just any blue; they are blue!


Prepping for Cambodia

Snorkling friends at Disney’s Typhoon Lagoon, 1995

When an old friend S got a job in Cambodia, I knew I needed to visit her. We’ve known each other since second grade and (rare for me) kept in touch through the years. She has a curious spirit like me, exploring different countries, always excited to learn more. We went to Girl Scout camp together in the 90s, but this will be the first time we’ve had this kind of adventure together.  Needless to say, I’m more than a bit excited.

I’ve completed my necessary travel vaccinations and got my Visa ahead of time, so now, at one week away, its time for final preparations. While I’m used to traveling for a week using only a carry-on,  that’s been on flights under five hours to countries where anything forgotten can be easily picked up. Planning for more  than 40hrs of travel time to a developing country leads to a few changes in my packing list.

For the plane ride I’m wearing some soft trousers, a cotton tee, a light hoodie, sneakers, a jacket, and a scarf.  Layering these items should keep me warm on the flight as well as during my looooooong layover in China where the weather will be cooler.

  • 2 tank tops
  • 3 short sleeve shirts
  • 1 long sleeve shirt (for temples and other places with conservative dress codes)
  • long maxi-skirt
  • light-weight capris
  • pj shorts
  • swim suit
  • 7 pairs knickers and a spare bra
  • 3 pairs socks
  • sandals
  • first aid kit with plenty of stomach medicine and bandaids
  • personal medicines (including anti-malarials)
  • toiletries
    • sunscreen, lotion, insect repellant
    • deodorant, castille soap, toothpaste
    • face cleaning wipes, tissues
    • tooth brush,  razor, hairbrush, hair ties, headband
  • umbrella and poncho
  • foldable bag & ziplock bags
  • paper-back book that I can leave behind
  • notebook & pens
  • neck pillow
  • ear plugs and eye mask
  • melatonin
  • small fast-dry towel
  • herbal teas and snack bars for the plane
  • iPod, phone, chargers, headphones
  • yarn and knitting needles
  • moneybelt
  • passport, visa, spare passport photos

Mum taught me to never go anywhere empty handed, so I’m also packing a small gift for my friend. All of this in my new, smaller 30L Osprey Porter.  Now let the count down to take-off begin!


My Top 10 Must Pack Items

On my quest to become a perfect packer (more at PackRat Will Travel), I have learned a few tricks. Below are the top ten items I will no longer travel without…

  1. Pitchable Ponchos
    I pack a few disposable rain ponchos for travel during rainy season, or to locations like the amazing city of London, where rain seems to be a year-round ordeal.  Visitors also underestimate the need for ponchos when vacationing in sunny Central Florida, where brief afternoon thundershowers are a daily occurrence. I typically find ponchos in the drug store for a couple of bucks each. They’re light, take up no room at all, and will prevent you from having to choose between overspending or modeling an unflattering-at-best plastic garbage bag. If your’re preparing to travel with a group, you can also order clear, disposable ponchos by the dozen for $19 at
    *Tip – if you hike into the Costa Rican rainforest, do not leave your rain ponchos in your rental car.
  2. Techie Tool Kit
    A camera charger, a back-up battery, an extra SD chip, a cell phone charging cord, a Fitbit charging cord, a USB wall port and a USB car converter are my personal top tech needs. All tuck neatly in a transparent sandwich sized Ziplock. With three camera batteries and a cell phone to charge, I easily could employ three converters on an international trip. This summer, mistakenly packed only the converter I would need in Uruguay, South America. I neglected to research whether the same converter would work in Argentina. The answer was NO.
    *Tip – Save yourself some angst. Pack the complete kit, and be done with it.
  3. Pre-Packed Toiletries
    Since traveling intermittently for business in the ’80s, I have kept a grab-and-go toiletry bag packed at all times. When I return home, I refill what’s needed (like a fresh mosquito repellent bracelet) or add an item to my shopping list while it’s fresh on my mind. Among other necessities, I always have antibacterial wipes, my mini sewing kit, a magnifying mirror, a personal heating pad to fend off chills or sore muscles, and a small rubber door stop to wedge under my door for added security while in my room. My fully-packed catch-all bag resides in my small rolling carry on, providing a speedy way to skip town!
    *Tip – Hang a few safety pins from the bag’s zipper pull.
  4. Pretty Pill Box
    Ditch the bulky bottles. I photograph each bottle label with one easily identifiable pill, to ensure I have accurate documentation for two purposes; to verify my prescription while traveling, and to assist in case of a medical emergency. I take a full week in a pretty little pill sorter, with a few extras of my most important medications in case of a delay.
    *Tip – If you are prone to motion sickness, be sure to have your doctor prescribe Transderm patches for behind your ear.  Each works for three days – but the protection WILL wear off if you do not replace it by the end of day three. They fit right in the bottom of my pill case.
  5. Bubble Wrap
    I somehow gravitate towards bringing home “breakables.” So I pack a small roll of bubble wrap. I’ve carried home a vintage vase and a set of beautiful stoneware plates from England. I lugged a treasured pitcher from Paris, wrapped in a layer of bubble wrap, and padded with soft clothing. And I recently transported glass jars of goodies from South America. Yet, due to bubble wrap, I have yet to discover a broken artifact in my bags upon my return.
    *Tip – Consider shipping when you can; you’ll already have the bubble wrap!
  6. A Reusable Tote
    My favorite bags easily cover all bases, transforming between shopping bag, beach bag and “technology undercover bag” to deter thieves. I have very different preferences, depending upon mode of travel and destination. For international travel this inexpensive IKEA pocket-pouch converts into a generous sized backpack. For domestic air travel, I prefer a “personal item” that zips closed, like the duffel style bag available in our MeetUatGate online store. When driving, I prefer an open beach tote  stuffed with easy-to-reach road trip snacks.
    *Tip – The  IKEA pocket bags come in two sizes/styles and make great thank you gifts for travel hosts or new friends who you connect with during your travels. Take a few extra!
  7. Empty Ziplock Bags
    Ziplock bags ensure liquids like local sauces, liqueurs and perfumes do not leak onto your belongings. These also protect your fabrics from absorbing the scents of culinary herbs and seasonings you may want to take to or from your own home kitchen. I collect shells from each beach I visit, and the shells stay divided until I can display them. They also keep the tekkie tools listed above in one place. Quart and gallon sized ziplocks have a perpetual home in my rolling carry-on.
    *Tip – Pack a sharpie and clearly label your bubble wrapped and bagged items. I have this bag of beautiful, unlabeled stones…
  8. Wine Protectors 
    I must admit that I own both versions of these padded wine bags, and use them on nearly every trip. I carry wine, liquor or even olive oils to and fro in these great bags. My brief review: The WineSkin Wine Bag is more durable and a bit more attractive, but I like the heavy cotton absorbent padding in the Jetbag. I once carried a bottle of vino that sprung a slight leak  – and the potential mess was absorbed in my Jetbag, shielding  my clothing and new treasures from red wine..
    *Tip – The Jetbag accommodates BOTH a bottle of wine and a small bottle of sauce or olive oil (upside down and adorned in bubble wrap, of course. )
  9. Camera and Journal: With watercolor pencils and a waterbrush
    A few years ago I started creating a journal page depicting each trip.  I often have to finish them when I arrive home, but I have photos that spark vivid memories, allowing me to re-live sights, sounds and experiences. I write random things like names of kind waiters and foreign language snafus, sketch odd things like road signs and objects, and write descriptive entries about what I hear, see, and feel. The proportions of my scribbles are most times off, but my pages make me smile nonetheless. A waterbrush pen is a great tool for quick sketching on the move. The body of the pen is a water receptacle, so it stays moist without a cup of water nearby.
    *Tip – If you are unsure of your sketching skills, a small pad of tracing paper is your friend. Take rubbings of signs, portions of historic markers, foliage or textures and hand write your notes around them. Photograph or scan your “travel art” once home.
  10. Packing Cubes
    Last but not least, this year I became a packing cube convert! There are more expensive options, but the IKEA four-pack is an easy, inexpensive favorite as a start. For Li, packing cubes are about organization. For me it’s all about compression. When I traveled to South America for three weeks during their winter, I packed heavy sweaters, a sweatshirt, jeans and boots  – and could not believe how much could be rolled and stuffed into a single packing cube. The mesh allows the air to escape while you compress (sit on?) and zip the cube.
    This spring, I traveled to Cabo San Lucas with just a rolling carry-on and my clothing in just the three cubes pictured. The small cube contained five pairs of panties (hidden from view, thanks) and two swim suits, because what sane woman  could go to Mexico with only one? The mid-size cube contains a knit sundress, a pair of leggings, a casual knit dress that doubles as a beach cover-up, and a long sleeved tee. The largest cube is double-sided, with one side containing long cotton pants, a long knit skirt, two tanks,  a men’s white linen shirt, a cotton pashmina, and a strapless bra. The reverse side contained non-clothing items listed above like tech items, rain ponchos and journaling supplies. When I travel internationally, I pack clothing that I plan to leave behind. I plan for for the bubble wrapped treasures and of course, the wine bags full of goodies!
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    *Tip – A clothing-packed cube doubles as a nice, firm travel pillow. Just pack it into a pillow case. I’ve even carried mine on my flight, as pillows count as neither a personal item nor a piece of luggage.


Hair-y Climate Situations

I am blessed – and cursed – with naturally curly hair. At home, the right tools, crèmes and chemicals allow me to quickly adopt just about any hairstyle – and my hair complies. But when I vacation I don’t have the appropriate arsenal of product and tools for the change of climate. All hair breaks loose and my locks check out for a possibly-deserved reprieve from the daily routine.

Like most women, I just don’t feel good when I am sporting bad hair. And hats are simply not appropriate in all environments, nor comfortable in scorching heat. I’m a hat person in winter. Period.

puertaplatahair-smWhen in the Dominican Republic, I saw photo of my Shirley Temple head, rolled my eyes and gasped to myself, “What the hair?” My brain demanded clearly to my conscience, “Who is that and what have you done to my “look?” A quick little braid provided an immediate solution to my bad-hair-life frustration. Thanks, Li, for the brilliant idea! Short hair or long, a braid is a great way to tidy up an unintended culrly “do.” Albeit, in the 70s I opted to style my hair into a white-chick puffball that, in retrospect, was cool at the time but extremely unflattering.

After two bad hair days in Jaco Beach, Costa Rica, I declared war on my hair and dragged Li on a mission to find an open salon. This was a few years back, when I first realized that I did not want to sail through life without mastering a costaricahaircutsmforeign language, and began my quest to learn Spanish. Unfortunately, I was not very far along in the process when I tried to explain to the lonely stylist in the tiny, hidden-alley salon how I wanted my hair cut short. Really short. In the land of long, curly, dark locks, my request is likely unheard of. Blank stare. Head shake. No comprender.

Li, although much better at masquerading fluent Spanish, also attempted . And failed. A young man summoned from the alley assisted in solving my extreme (but far from frantic) hair crisis. “What he said,” I thought as he gave the sweet, smiling young woman with scissors detailed instructions – in words I could not understand. Alas, the snipping began. In the end, I sported the best – and most budget-friendly – short haircut of my life. We extended the magic “gracias” word to our rescue duo and sauntered out of the quaint little alley with high-fives and a contagious case of the girly giggles.

Fast forward to this spring’s escape to Mexico. My hair loved the dry heat of Cabo San Lucas, and I was happy as a clam in the water. My normal soft curls refrained from rebelling against my quick, daily routine.

However, Cabo felt a bit like Los Angeles to me, so I am now committed to seek out bad-hair venues for the future. I think, maybe, just maybe, it’s time to embrace my soft, tight natural curls and let them grow. If – and that’s a big “IF” – I can stand looking like Shirley Temple as the curls gain some little ringlet traction!

I’m trying to recall how bad my hair behaved in London. Perhaps it’s time for a rewind?

I should just package and sell this for curly travelers…

Complete hair rescue kit for chicks:

headbands-smA wide knit headband (or two).
Pretty, blingy bobby pins.
Pony tail elastics, should you have enough hair.
Hat that makes you feel amazingly cute.
Frizz control gel, putty, or heavy leave-in conditioner.
Travel –sized curling iron.
Miniature straightening iron. (Trust me – Don’t bother with this if humidity is on the radar.)

And for you men who worry about having a bad hair day…

Simple hair rescue kit for dudes:
A hat.
A razor.



Confessions of a Wanderer

When you’re a wanderer the normal, little things can become a huge chore. Doctors appointments are a chore to schedule, grocery shopping is a constant mental calculation of what won’t spoil while you’re away, and all your free time is spent creating new plans while confirming those you’ve already made. Its like being in a perpetual final countdown.

IMG_3560I’ve been out of town 4 of the past 6 weekends (including Los Angeles and Memphis) and am looking at being home 1 of the next 4.  Currently I have three different suitcases in some state of being packed. Mum asked me last week “Has Hondo dog figured out that you’re going again?” The answer is easily, no, he’s used to there always being at least one suitcase out, plus he comes along half the time.

Now, I’m no complaining at all. I’ve always been fairly transient, never having a permanent address anywhere for more than 6yrs and taking off to explore somewhere monthly at the least.  I love exploring a new place, marveling at the differences and striking similarities of both the surroundings and the people.

Its just a part of who I am, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.


The Condo Box

Sometimes mum and I decide to meet at a destination. We pick a location that’s driveable for each of us then rent a unit for a week of relaxation and shenanigans. While working out the details can take time (planning from two different places), one  item that comes along to all of our driving destinations is our “condo box.”

relaxing at the condo while mum goes zip lining
relaxing in Basye, VA while mum goes zip lining
When you rent a condo, cabin, or airbnb, you’ll generally be supplied with some necessities. We’ve found that you can never be certain that you’ll have everything you need, that the knives are sharp enough, or that the toilet paper is soft enough (toilets when you travel can be a unique challenge). After our first lacking experience, we’ve pre-packed our “condo box” with the necessities, plus a few luxuries, to make living in our temporary home more comfortable.

The Necessities

  • paper towels
  • toilet paper
  • trash bags
  • aluminum foil
  • zipper storage bags (for food, shells on the beach, etc)
  • dish washing soap
  • wooden spoons and spatulas
  • knives and cutting board
  • can opener
  • olive oil, salt, and pepper
  • coffee filters
  • wine bottle opener (yes, this IS a necessity)

The Luxuries

  • Clorox wipes
  • scented candle (works wonders for musty cabins plus emergency light)
  • matches or lighter
  • extra seasonings
  • measuring spoons
  • coffee creamer singles
  • wine glasses (because wine.)

our condo box, all packed and ready for adventure
The biggest advantage about having the box always packed is that its one less thing to worry about. All you have to do is stick it in the car and off you go!


JetBlue Serves Up Hugs!

While today’s airlines don’t typically claim to offer the ultimate in luxury, every airline has an opportunity to deliver great service. On August 3, 2016, JetBlue’s team made my day! At Charleston International Airport, Lucia and Caroline were so kind that my second – and final – check-in experience included hugs. My send-off on this International trip to generate work is stellar, yet I’m still in my home city with my first flight delayed nearly two hours.

During my initial check-in Lucia attempted many avenues to grab me a primo seat on my connecting red-eye on LATAM Airlines. She tried her best to ensure I am not seated in the middle on my midnight to 6am flight. Although she was unable to grab me seats, this kind, funny, and engaging professional was fabulous. With a grin, Caroline watched. I told Lucia how awesome she was and rolled my carry-on through to the TSA pre-check line.

Selection for pre-check status is a blessing. How I’ve managed to sail through security the last couple of times is a mystery. Laptop stays in bag, clothing and shoes stay on, and my feet remain germless. But today, even in the premium line, my bag was pulled for closer inspection. Two TSA agents transfer my too-heavy carry-on to the inspection table. Is it the four pounds of Toll House chocolate chips? Did the agent have a problem with the block of Smoked Gouda cheese or the frozen Tasso Ham in my bag? Charleston stone ground grits are certainly not the issue. Yes, Charleston shrimp and grits and Toll House cookies are on the menu for this weekend. Turns out this seasoned traveler tucked a padded bottle of Cave Ridge Port wine in the wrong suitcase.

Do not pass go. Do not proceed to the gate. The choices are slim: Drink the whole bottle of high test wine and stagger back through security. Or re-visit Lucia and Caroline to determine whether I can slip the bottle into my already checked bag. While the first was tempting, I chose the latter option.

Caroline-LuciaLucia not only welcomed me back, but also remembered my name and destination. Caroline laughed with us during the ensuing comedic episode. Had they been two different individuals, would they have been annoyed that I expected them to help me save a bottle of wine? They could have rolled their eyes. Instead, they hugged me, wished me an awesome trip, and allowed me to snap a quick photo of their gracious smiles.


WineAndBagAs I begin this particular journey, they remind me of the importance of not just the places you see and the moments you experience, but also the people you meet along the way. Travel never goes exactly as planned. So laugh at your mistakes and enjoy the journey!

My good friend Helene recently advised another friend to take a step back to view a stressful situation as a sitcom episode. Is this season 5, episode 17? A chick lugging a fifty-pound carry-on bag and a forty-pound “personal item” gets ousted from the TSA fast lane for attempting to smuggle a bottle of special Port. Next scene? Upon returning to the fast lane, sans bottle, the TSA passport dude asks why she’s back. She explains. He offers to drink the wine with her when he gets off work. Her luck? It’s already in her checked bag!